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Infidelity Hurts Awareness Day

bring support - be support - find support - show support

The hidden secrets and shame of infidelity are all too common and negatively affect individuals, families, children, and communities. Let's not hide behind closed doors while suffering in silence. Instead, lets bring awareness to the hurt and pain that this behavior causes; let's support those who are suffering behind those walls of shame, pity, blame, and embarrassment; and, let's seek to make positive social change in such behavior. Together we can, but we must not be afraid to Rise Up and Raise Awareness!

Please share this website and event information with others who might benefit. We look forward to meeting and sharing with you at the 2nd Annual Infidelity Speaks Awareness Day.

Christina Ferguson, Founder

Infidelity Speaks Awareness Day

Special Guest Presenters

Laura Steuer

Executive Director

Infidelity Counseling Network

Why do affairs happen? Who has affairs? Does talking about it help or hinder healing? What's the difference between personal recovery and marital recovery? How can affairs be prevented? Laura will discuss these and other issues, based on the decades-long research by Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth. Infidelity Counseling Network is the only nonprofit in the country which helps women heal from infidelity through free, confidential, one-to-one telephone peer counseling regardless of whether their relationships end or mend.

Elda M. Lopez

Author of THE (IN)FIDELITY FACTOR: Points to Ponder Before You Cheat. A well-received, 5 star book that promotes infidelity prevention by emphasizing accountability, self-awareness, and growth. Elda has been on both sides of the fence and openly shares her experiences and the important lessons she's learned along the way. Rather than allowing the normalization of infidelity, she encourages people to be the change-up!

"Elda Lopez presents a concise and yet thorough portrait of the world of cheating and its ramifications, bolstered by statistics, interviews, sources for help, humor, and her own experiences."

William Roger Fatum, Psy.D., L.P.C., NCC, CPM


Dr. Fatum has been a practicing counseling psychologist for over 25 years. He is presently an adjunct professor at Kean University, as well as the senior partner in “Explore the Challenge,” a behavior management consulting firm. Dr. Fatum offers unique training that rejuvenates the attendees’ abilities to re-discover various ways to minimize the adverse effects of infidelity, while exploring and enhancing solutions that create positive outcomes.

Founder, Infidelity SPeaKS Awareness Day

Christina Ferguson

Author and Certified Professional Coach

After having gone through several traumatic events in her marriage, including infidelity, Christina Ferguson founded the first Infidelity SPeaKS Awareness Day in 2015. She knew she was not alone in her experiences and wanted others in similar situations to unite and overcome their personal tragedies. In Christina’s own words:

“The vision for Infidelity SPeaKS is to bring this topic front and center and to shed light on such devastating behavior. It is disturbing to hear about the number of relationships that infidelity has impacted and even more frustrating to witness how acceptable this behavior has become. The goal of Infidelity SPeaKS is to stand up against infidelity. This movement challenges us to look into the heart of the matter.”


Event Registration

Eventbrite - Rise Up and Raise Awareness: Infidelity Hurts

Please Note:

Portions of the weekend may be photographed and/or videotaped. Attendees grant Infidelity SPeaKS and its supporters permission to utilize their image and likeness, in whole or in part, in internet webpages, social media sites, brochures and/or other media or informational, educational, advertising, or promotional materials.

Have questions or need additional information? Reach out here.

Thank you to these organizations and individuals who supported the 2015 Infidelity SPeaKS Awareness Day ...

BAN - Beyond Affairs Network

Anne Bercht

Betrayed Wives Club

Infidelity Counseling Network

Infidelity Healing

Kids Scorned

Elda Lopez

Men Scorned

Dennis Ortman, Ph.D.

Passionate Life Seminars

Jay Reiss, M.S.W.

Women Scorned