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Infidelity Hurts Awareness Day

Thank You to Our Supporters

Our mission can be accomplished only through the support of other caring individuals, organizations, and groups that recognize the need to bring this issue to the forefront and offer encouragement and support to those who are affected. To our wonderful supporters, we say THANK YOU! Together we can make a difference.

Anne Bercht

Director of BAN (Beyond Affairs Network) and Author of "My Husband's Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to me.:"

Laura Steuer

Founder and Executive Director, Infidelity Counseling Network

Elda M. Lopez

Author of THE (IN)FIDELITY FACTOR: Points to Ponder Before You Cheat

Heal the pain, rebuild the bond, restore the trust.

Dennis Ortman, Ph.D.

Author of Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder

Jan Griffiths

Women Scorned, Men Scorned, and Kids Scorned (from the U.K.)

Betrayed Wives Club

We're mothers, daughters, sisters, friends, wives. Wives of men who cheated.

Jay Reiss, M.S.W.

Professional Life Coach & Infidelity Counselor

Shirley P. Auguste, M.A.M., M.Ed., M.A.

Author of the world known book Bad Girl Gone Good ~ Learning to Trust and Bad Girl Gone Good: The Workbook – 12 Ways to Renew Your Identity

"Love is precious. Stay faithful."

Find out more about our supporters...

"I am thrilled to see this effort to create greater public awareness about the pain and destruction to families that affairs cause!" ~ Anne Bercht

Host of, Director of BAN - Beyond Affairs Network, and Author of “My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to me.”

BAN is an international network of local, in-person, peer-to-peer support groups for the betrayed spouse, to provide a place for sharing and comfort for the deep pain, as well as a place to gain perspective and information, aimed at helping members think more clearly, so they can make informed choices about their future. For more information see the website.

My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me

An inspiring true story of one couple’s journey to healing after the devastation of betrayal. “This Book is for Everyone!” “Spellbinding, Suspenseful, Compelling"

I loved this book! It is informative and gives a positive example for others struggling to rekindle their marriage after such trauma. Moving and very powerful emotionally. The insights and honesty offered are right on the money and extremely well articulated. There can be no greater goal than rebuilding a marriage to the benefit of both spouses and the family. – Bettina Gregory, Psy. D, Host of American Life Television’s “American Family”

Passionate Life Seminars with Affair Recovery Specialists Brian and Anne Bercht 

Passionate Life Seminars offers more than one hundred free articles, and audio seminars covering every aspect of affair recovery at no charge. Passionate Life Seminars also runs the Healing from Affairs seminar for couples, the Take Your Life Back seminar for betrayed women, and the Man of Honor weekend (mostly attended by men who’ve had affairs in the past, and now wish to add accountability and personal growth to their lives so they can make sure they live faithfully forward).

We help women heal from infidelity through confidential, one-to-one, telephone peer counseling.

Our executive director Laura Steuer will share her personal story of recovery and provide a context to support your own healing.

We are the only nonprofit in the U.S. and Canada that does what we do. Our trained volunteer peer counselors are women who have themselves survived infidelity, and they support each client in her personal recovery from this trauma whether her relationship ends or mends.

Through our peer counseling services, each and every one of our clients becomes strengthened to cope with the emotional rollercoaster of betrayal; empowered to manage the ending or mending of her marriage/relationship; and transformed into a powerful role model for her family and friends

Thanks for all you're doing Christina ~~ Elda M. Lopez

THE (IN)FIDELITY FACTOR: Points to Ponder Before You Cheat.

A much needed book for those who have a desire to know, and those in the throes of desire re: (in)fidelity in a committed relationship. The author has been on both sides of the fence and knows the struggles. Not pretty. It includes invaluable information, statistics, commentary, personal stories and surveys for examination. An honest, easy, concise read that gets to the crux of the matter, with bits of humor thrown in for good measure. This is a book for everyone. It offers up guidelines to preserve integrity and respect before falling victim to the harmful backlash of infidelity. The purpose is to promote awareness, education and personal accountability. This is your call to action, no matter which side of the fence you find yourself. Time for a big change-up. Bottom line: Cheating is Defeating!

"This book was incredibly insightful and very well written." ~ David. C.

"This book is useful for all aspects of life and not just intimate relationships." ~ Laura M.

"The author offers witty relationship advice, while keeping it real and solid. The author also shares her own experience and feelings regarding this very common topic." ~ Natasha

Read more about Elda M. Lopez here.

Recovering from infidelity in marriage is not easy, but it can be done. Millions of couples have re-built their relationships from the ground up after affairs, and they've managed to put the past behind them and move forward.

However, there are many couples who never go to the effort to repair the damage that’s been done. That’s why the statistics are so grim for healing after an affair has taken place. But with work and some professional guidance, marriages can indeed recover and even flourish after the rift that betrayal opens has been repaired.

At Infidelity Healing, we know how you feel, and we also know how to help you save your marriage – whether you were the one cheated on or the one doing the cheating. If re-kindling the love and trust that you once shared is priority one for you, you’ll find that our online resources will give you the tools that you need to forge a pathway to a brighter tomorrow and a stronger, more stable marriage.

I invite you to begin your journey to recovery by visiting:


Thank you for your efforts, bringing to awareness the devastating effects of infidelity on partners and children and giving hope for healing. The pain of infidelity can be avoided by building strong, healthy marriages. Continue your fine work.

Dennis Ortman

Visit website at

Greetings from the U.K.

Why Women, Men and Kids Scorned? 

Find out why and what has driven Jan Griffiths to build and launch these unique website as well as the International Women Scorned Awareness Day here.

Whether you have decided to remain in the relationship, leave or have been left we want you to find comfort, hope and laughter within the site’s many pages and so have brought together the crème de la crème of celebrity and non-celebrity experts who form a wonderful bank of experience and knowledge for you all.

Whether you have decided to remain in the relationship, leave or have been left we want you to find comfort, hope and laughter within the site’s many pages as well as the articles and advice from the celebrity and non-celebrity experts. Our rules are simple!

Whether your parents have decided to stick together, leave the family home or have already left, Kids Scorned want you to find comfort, hope, laughter and friendship within the site’s many pages and Forum. So what have we brought together for you? Some great people who are experts in helping kids and young adults who are going through exactly what you’re experiencing right now.

Betrayed Wives Club

We're mothers, daughters, sisters, friends, wives. Wives of men who cheated. Find out more here.

"I'm delighted to see an approach to infidelity that acknowledges the devastation and shame the betrayed partner can experience...and encourages a productive and healing approach to such a widespread issue. Kudos to you!"

Congratulations and Much Success on Your First Annual Infidelity SPeaKS Awareness Day in Washington, D.C.

Did you ever stop to think that the lessons learned from a betrayal could help you focus on becoming stronger, wiser, and more confident? After an affair, while surviving infidelity you will naturally spend lots of time thinking about your partner and what went wrong. But it's important to use the time after an affair to squarely face reality. Ask yourself: What important changes do I need to make in my own life?

Surviving infidelity means switching your focus back to you! Whether you choose to stay and work on the relationship or leave it, your approach should be focusing on staying true to yourself. Surviving infidelity is a different process for every person. But no relationship is worth compromising your hopes, plans, and dreams in order to please another person. While we all must sacrifice from time to time in a relationship, none of us should lose ourselves within a relationship - or later while surviving infidelity and regrouping.

For additional information on Infidelity Counseling, contact Jay Reiss, M.S.W., Professional Life Coach, in Santa Barbara, California at Or feel free to call our offices at (805) 964-6574.

Jay Reiss, M.S.W. - Professional Life Coach & Infidelity Counselor

Jay Reiss, M.S.W. is a Professional Life Coach and Infidelity Counselor. He has worked with more than two thousand clients worldwide since 1981 and his assistance with infidelity issues is available through the following two websites: and He offers a free 20-minute initial consultation for anyone who has been the victim of infidelity either in their relationship or in their marriage. He can be reached by phone at (805) 964-6574 or by email at: [email protected].

Shirley P. Auguste, M.A.M., M.Ed., M.A., is author of the world known book Bad Girl Gone Good ~ Learning to Trust and Bad Girl Gone Good: The Workbook – 12 Ways to Renew Your Identity. She wrote the book and workbook as a tool to help women and young adults overcome obstacles they have experienced or experiencing. In the book, she uses scripture, her experiences, faith, and professional training of how to persevere, stand on faith, and the Word of God to overcome. As a world known author, life coach, and motivational speaker, it is her hope to help people heal, strengthen their faith walk, find peace and their purpose. Shirley has been featured on radio, podcasts, and tours, and has taught and spoken in Tanzania, Africa, Haiti, and the United States. More about this amazing woman at

"Christina Ferguson's Infidelity Speaks movement is a noble cause that FidelityDating fully supports and one that the world needs"- Gary Spivak, FidelityDating

"Love is precious. Stay faithful."